I'm a licensed therapist, former university professor, author and speaker. I LOVE working with teens and their parents through this poignant, bewildering, vibrant, and stressful time!
"Roya's way of exploring the ways to better understand and connect with our teenagers were incredibly helpful. Her insights and way of explaining approaches to better support our teens was very helpful." Lorina C.
Watch videos at your own pace, participate in small group discussions, or meet one-on-one.
Whichever lift off level you choose, there is something for every family!
$95 one time fee
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$395 one time fee
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***The next group workshop starts on Sept. 10th 2024 and runs for 5 Tuesdays, from 10-11am pacific time!***
$195 each week ($975 total) OR pay at once and take $100 off ($875 total)!
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My most popular parenting tool, the Lift Off to Adulthood Workshop comes in 3 different levels so that you can go at your own pace.
Each level provides 5 modules of in-depth content designed to help teens and their parents explore their worries, have better conversations about the Big Important Stuff, and move through anxiety-induced-paralysis and take the next steps forward.
Choose the recorded option to go at your own pace, enroll for the next live workshop with a small group of invested families, or work with Roya one-on-one as we move through the exercises and content together.
"Roya is a breath of fresh air on this heavy topic. So much popular advice is to limit and punish teens, but Roya embraces teens for the incredible people they are and talks about how to encourage and support them as they grow into adults." Melissa Y.
When you register for a Lift Off Workshop, you immediately get:
This week the focus is all about helping teens and their parents have the same conversation!
There can be a HUGE disconnect between what a parent thinks they are trying to communicate versus what the teenager is hearing. This week we talk about that clash of expectations.
We use a hands-on timeline exercise to communicate more effectively about different important milestones and bring awareness to the pressure, stress, and overwhelm that is often felt by teens and their parents.
This module helps parents shift out of fear and focus more on their teen's strengths and skills, and helps teens communicate their worries to their parents.
A big complaint that the teens I work with have is that their parents don't understand what they're trying to communicate. Parents just say, "you're awesome I believe in you" when teenagers are trying to have concrete conversations about the internal and external barriers to success they feel.
The activity this week asks parents and teens to illustrate those fears AND the tools and skills that can be used to combat them. It provides an opportunity for parents and teens to compare perspectives and gain value from each other.
Module 3 is all about looking at why taking some steps to adulthood seem scary, and why so many teenagers want to stay in their comfort zone.
We talk about what happens when we try to accomplish a large or scary task, how to get the most benefits out of our comfort zones, and how to understand what our brains do to protect us when it feels under threat. We discuss the logistical and emotional things that get in our way and make us feel stuck.
This week parents and teenagers are encouraged to look together at taking a task and break it up into steps - with the goal of greater understanding of our coping mechanisms.
Module 4 takes a look at specific steps that teens can take to accomplish their goals for successful adulthood.
Parents hone their brainstorming, creative, imaginative selves in an exercise designed to help them help their teens imagine their future. Teens break big tasks into smaller steps and use their new awareness from past week's to think ahead about possible barriers and hardships.
This week we are building on everything that's come before, and as always the topics facilitate many important conversations between teens and their parents.
The last module helps teens and parents take everything they've uncovered throughout the last 5 sections and make realistic commitments based on genuine goals for the future.
Teens and parents will spend this module working on setting themselves up for the future beyond this workshop, so that everyone can continue better communication, partnering together during difficulties, and building on their strengths and skills.
This week the focus is on the parents and teens connecting with each other and deciding on a few important next steps together.
You'll have access to the workshop portal, presentations, handouts, conversation starters, homework, and other material for the foreseeable future!
You will also have the chance to join in the ongoing Launch Anxiety community in order to keep getting support and feedback while you and your teen navigate their launch to adulthood.
If you purchased the at-your-own-pace workshop and realize you'd rather work alongside a group or meet one-on-one with me, that will also be available to you as well!
"This [workshop] was super helpful for my husband and I to understand how to support our children so that they believe in themselves!" Aileen B.
This workshop is designed for BOTH teens and their parents. Each module has exercises, homework, and questions for both sides of the parent-teen partnership.
Level 1 is one set price, feel free to use with your whole family.
Level 2 & 3 base price is set for 1 parent and 1 teen. It's $25 more for each additional parent or teen who'd like to join in.
The Lift Off Workshop is designed for teens who are anxious or stressed out about growing up - whatever age that might be.
I've found this is more a stage of development than a specific age. As you and I both know, some 13 year olds seem closer to 11, and other 13 year olds seem like they're going on 18 already!
If your teen feels dissatisfied with where they are at in life, if they are worried about what it will take to handle "adulting" tasks, or if they are feeling pressure and stress about the future - then whatever their age, this would be helfpul for them.
The workshop is designed to cover whatever specific adulthood fears you and your teens have - whether it's driving, living alone, college, relationships, or more. We will use specific examples from your life but the concepts will be able to be generalized all sorts of different topics.
Many of the teens I work with are resistant to therapy. This workshop is a great way to get them thinking about and working on their anxiety - I AM a licensed therapist, but this isn't technically therapy. It might help give them the little boost they need to continue seeking counseling afterwards as well!
Absolutely! This workshop can be a great complementary experience to individual therapy.
If you are one of MY clients - feel free to sign up. Your confidentiality will be protected, and I will never discuss things we talked about in session in any group setting.
Insurance will not cover Level 1 or Level 2 of this workshop. If you are a California resident, I can provide a superbill to you if you have one-on-one sessions with me. You can submit those to your insurance company for possible reimbursement afterwards.
"Thanks again Roya. You are delightful to work with. You care deeply for families and I appreciate this course and the pathway it's provided for us three." W