Lift Off Workshop

DECREASE the anxiety of growing up with

LIFT OFF to adulthood

WORKSHOP series FOR TEENS & THEIR PARENTS

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Are you Struggling to Guide Your Teen to Adulthood?

"I just don't know what to do."

There comes a time in every parent's life when they have to let their teens turn into adults...
...but...how?

Your teen feels paralyzed, indecisive, and is doubting their own capabilities. What do you do?

How do you know when to step in and help? When to push your teen to do something difficult? How do you give the right level of support? How do you keep connecting with them even if they are pulling or pushing you away?

Welcome to Lift Off: the workshop that helps teens & their parents navigate the scary transition to adulthood!

  • Help your teen develop confidence
  • Help your teen communicate
  • Help your teen build self-esteem

"The experience with Roya was great. She provides tangible tools to assist us and our teen. The collaborative approach - parents and teen - was helpful."  MW

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I'm Roya Dedeaux, nice to meet you!

I'm a licensed therapist, former university professor, author and speaker. I LOVE working with teens and their parents through this poignant, bewildering, vibrant, and stressful time!

i help parents navigate

  • their fears & expectations,
  • to communicate effectively,
  • build your teen's self-esteem, and

 help them develop the skills to launch!

Find out more about me here!
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"Roya's way of exploring the ways to better understand and connect with our teenagers were incredibly helpful. Her insights and way of explaining approaches to better support our teens was very helpful." Lorina C.

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Lift Off Workshops: 3 levels to choose from

Watch videos at your own pace, participate in small group discussions, or meet one-on-one.

Whichever lift off level you choose, there is something for every family!

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Lift Off

at your own pace

experience the lift off workshop material as a

SEries of videos and worksheets you can go through in your own time!

$95 one time fee

Access to:

  • Recorded videos of all 5 modules
  • Presentation handouts
  • Homework exercises
Sign Up Here
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Lift Off

group workshop

experience the lift off workshop material as a

Group with a small number of parents & teens in the same situation that you are!

$395 one time fee

Access to:

  • Small group workshops
  • Guided discussion for each module
  • Immediate feedback based on exercises and homework
  • Recorded videos of all 5 modules
  • Presentation handouts
  • Homework exercises
  • Online community with ongoing support
Sign Up Here

***The next group workshop starts on Sept. 10th 2024 and runs for 5 Tuesdays, from 10-11am pacific time!***

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Lift Off

one-on-one

experience the lift off workshop material with

individual attention and personalized exercises just for you and your teen.

$195 each week ($975 total) OR pay at once and take $100 off ($875 total)!

Access to:

  • 5 50 minute sessions just for you and your teen
  • Individualized presentations based on your family
  • Guided and specific discussions and exercises for each module
  • Immediate and personalized feedback based on exercises and homework
  • Recorded videos of all 5 modules
  • Presentation handouts
  • Homework exercises
  • Online community with ongoing support
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Build confidence and decrease anxiety

My most popular parenting tool, the Lift Off to Adulthood Workshop comes in 3 different levels so that you can go at your own pace.


Each level provides 5 modules of in-depth content designed to help teens and their parents explore their worries, have better conversations about the Big Important Stuff, and move through anxiety-induced-paralysis and take the next steps forward.


Choose the recorded option to go at your own pace, enroll for the next live workshop with a small group of invested families, or work with Roya one-on-one as we move through the exercises and content together.

Sign up here
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"Roya is a breath of fresh air on this heavy topic. So much popular advice is to limit and punish teens, but Roya embraces teens for the incredible people they are and talks about how to encourage and support them as they grow into adults." Melissa Y.

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what does the workshop cover?

  • Support before the workshop even begins

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    When you register for a Lift Off Workshop, you immediately get:


    • Access to the workshop portal, the course material, and an online community.
    • An exercise before we even begin to get the ball rolling!
    • Each week you'll get the workshop content, which has a different focus designed to help teens and their parents decrease anxiety and take next steps together,
    • A hands-on activity that will bring awareness and action steps,
    • 10-20 "conversation starters" based on that week's topic, for parents to ask teens and teens to ask their parents.
    • Homework if you'd like to dive even deeper that week.

    Sign up here!
  • Module 1: Expectations

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    This week the focus is all about helping teens and their parents have the same conversation!


    There can be a HUGE disconnect between what a parent thinks they are trying to communicate versus what the teenager is hearing. This week we talk about that clash of expectations.  




    We use a hands-on timeline exercise to communicate more effectively about different important milestones and bring awareness to the pressure, stress, and overwhelm that is often felt by teens and their parents.


    Sign up here!
  • Module 2: Expectations to Action

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    This module helps parents shift out of fear and focus more on their teen's strengths and skills, and helps teens communicate their worries to their parents.




    A big complaint that the teens I work with have is that their parents don't understand what they're trying to communicate. Parents just say, "you're awesome I believe in you" when teenagers are trying to have concrete conversations about the internal and external barriers to success they feel. 




    The activity this week asks parents and teens to illustrate those fears AND the tools and skills that can be used to combat them. It provides an opportunity for parents and teens to compare perspectives and gain value from each other.

    Sign up here!
  • Module 3: Safety Spheres

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    Module 3 is all about looking at why taking some steps to adulthood seem scary, and why so many teenagers want to stay in their comfort zone. 




    We talk about what happens when we try to accomplish a large or scary task, how to get the most benefits out of our comfort zones, and how to understand what our brains do to protect us when it feels under threat. We discuss the logistical and emotional things that get in our way and make us feel stuck.




    This week parents and teenagers are encouraged to look together at taking a task and break it up into steps - with the goal of greater understanding of our coping mechanisms.

    Sign up here!
  • Module 4: Expanding Growth

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    Module 4 takes a look at specific steps that teens can take to accomplish their goals for successful adulthood. 




    Parents hone their brainstorming, creative, imaginative selves in an exercise designed to help them help their teens imagine their future. Teens break big tasks into smaller steps and use their new awareness from past week's to think ahead about possible barriers and hardships.




    This week we are building on everything that's come before, and as always the topics facilitate many important conversations between teens and their parents.

    Sign up here!
  • Module 5: 3, 2, 1...Lift Off!

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    The last module helps teens and parents take everything they've uncovered throughout the last 5 sections and make realistic commitments based on genuine goals for the future. 




    Teens and parents will spend this module working on setting themselves up for the future beyond this workshop, so that everyone can continue better communication, partnering together during difficulties, and building on their strengths and skills. 




    This week the focus is on the parents and teens connecting with each other and deciding on a few important next steps together.

    Sign up here
  • After the workshop

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    You'll have access to the workshop portal, presentations, handouts, conversation starters, homework, and other material for the foreseeable future!


    You will also have the chance to join in the ongoing Launch Anxiety community in order to keep getting support and feedback while you and your teen navigate their launch to adulthood. 




    If you purchased the at-your-own-pace workshop and realize you'd rather work alongside a group or meet one-on-one with me, that will also be available to you as well!

    Ready to launch? Sign up here!

"This [workshop] was super helpful for my husband and I to understand how to support our children so that they believe in themselves!" Aileen B.

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Frequently Asked Questions

  • Is the workshop for parents or teens?

    This workshop is designed for BOTH teens and their parents. Each module has exercises, homework, and questions for both sides of the parent-teen partnership.


    Level 1 is one set price, feel free to use with your whole family.

    Level 2 & 3 base price is set for 1 parent and 1 teen. It's $25 more for each additional parent or teen who'd like to join in.

  • What age is this for?

    The Lift Off Workshop is designed for teens who are anxious or stressed out about growing up - whatever age that might be.


    I've found this is more a stage of development than a specific age. As you and I both know, some 13 year olds seem closer to 11, and other 13 year olds seem like they're going on 18 already!


    If your teen feels dissatisfied with where they are at in life, if they are worried about what it will take to handle "adulting" tasks, or if they are feeling pressure and stress about the future - then whatever their age, this would be helfpul for them.

  • What topics do you cover?

    The workshop is designed to cover whatever specific adulthood fears you and your teens have - whether it's driving, living alone, college, relationships, or more. We will use specific examples from your life but the concepts will be able to be generalized all sorts of different topics.

  • My teen won't try therapy, will this help?

    Many of the teens I work with are resistant to therapy. This workshop is a great way to get them thinking about and working on their anxiety - I AM a licensed therapist, but this isn't technically therapy. It might help give them the little boost they need to continue seeking counseling afterwards as well!

  • Can my teen do this workshop if they are already in therapy?

    Absolutely! This workshop can be a great complementary experience to individual therapy.


    If you are one of MY clients - feel free to sign up. Your confidentiality will be protected, and I will never discuss things we talked about in session in any group setting. 

  • Do you take insurance?

    Insurance will not cover Level 1 or Level 2 of this workshop. If you are a California resident, I can provide a superbill to you if you have one-on-one sessions with me. You can submit those to your insurance company for possible reimbursement afterwards.

"Thanks again Roya. You are delightful to work with. You care deeply for families and I appreciate this course and the pathway it's provided for us three." W

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